The Good Friend Guide
  • Introduction
  • English
    • Introduction
    • How others have helped loved ones
    • How to listen
    • What to say
    • If they have children
    • If they return to abuser
    • What can you do?
    • Useful terms
    • Thanks
    • About Chayn
  • Español
    • Introducción
    • Cómo han ayudado otros a sus seres queridos
    • Cómo escuchar
    • Qué decir
    • Si tienen hijos
    • Si vuelven con el maltratador
    • ¿Qué puedes hacer?
    • Términos útiles
    • Gracias
    • Sobre Chayn
  • Português
    • Introduction
    • Como outras pessoas ajudaram suas amigas ou familiares
    • Como ouvir
    • O que dizer
    • Se ela tiver filhos
    • E se ela voltar com o abusador
    • O que você pode fazer?
    • Termos importantes
    • Agradecimentos a Cagne Sciolte
    • Sobre o Chayn
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Last updated 3 years ago

How to be supportive to a friend or family member experiencing abuse.

Are you looking for practical and simple advice on how to better support a friend in an abusive relationship? This is a short guide that will do just that. If you’re not sure how to spot signs of abuse, you can also read our other guide: . Though this is not a definitive resource with all the answers for each individual case, it’s a good place to start especially if you’re feeling unsure or anxious. Don’t worry! You can do this. There is no one-size-fits-all solution so only follow the advice within this guide that feels right in your situation.

This guide is part of a continuing discussion about how we can support those in violent relationships. We welcome suggestions and contributions that will help us improve this guide.

For now, we have decided to focus our attention on violent and abusive relationships in which the survivor is a woman or non-binary person. The relationships may be heterosexual or same-sex. Although work is mostly aimed at women and non-binary people, the advice given in this guide can be used by anyone who believes it can be helpful to them, regardless of gender.

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